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Because I Loved You: A True Adoption Story. Mindy L Hawks. 2012. 156p. CreateSpace.
When, as a young, unmarried teen I found myself pregnant, I had to make a choice; raise the child on my own as a single mother, or place my baby in the arms of another mother and father. I knew what would be best for my child, but could I go through with it?

Before the Search: An Adoption Searcher’s Primer. Michele Heiderer. 1997. 80p. Ye Olde Genealogie Shoppe.
With this book, the author wants to educate you with the necessary knowledge BEFORE you begin your search. Chapters include: The Glossary; State Law; The Birth Certificate; The Adoption File; State and National Registries; Help Is Available and State Guidelines.

Being a Birthparent: Finding Our Place. Brenda Romanchik. 1999. 20p. (Open Adoption Pocket Book Series) R-Squared Press.
From the Publisher: The four booklets in The Open Adoption Pocket Book Series are designed to give prospective birth parents and adoptive parents a concise introduction to the many different issues in open adoption. Being a Birthparent explores issues such as being a birth parent in an open adoption, fitting into the lives of your child and his or her adoptive family, and how does the experience affect other parts of your life.

About the Author: Brenda Romanchik is the birth mother of a 15-year-old son, Matthew, whom she placed in an open adoption at birth. She is the author of a number of open adoption books and publications as well as the owner of R-Squared Press, a publishing company dedicated to bringing the public resources for open adoption. Brenda is a firm believer that for open adoptions to work, those involved need practical information on how to handle the relationships open adoptions create. She also believes that birth parents and adoptive parents need ongoing support. With this in mind, in 1994, Brenda organized the first Lifegiver’s Festival in Traverse City, Michigan with Jim Gritter, the author of The Spirit of Open Adoption. Since that time she has facilitated seven national Lifegiver’s Festivals in Higgins Lake, MI, and is taking it “on the road” to other locations all over the country. She is also involved in organizing The Open Adoption Families Conference, held every even year. She is also a participant in a number of national and regional adoption conferences.


Between You and Me: Making A Loving Choice Adoption. Lori A Hogg. Illustrated by Mary Ann C Piazza. 2007. 24p. (YA) Bezalel Books.
From the Publisher: For all those desperately seeking simplicity in a book about the beauty of adoption and God’s supreme plan for the sacredness of each uniquely created life, Between You and Me will be treasured as a one-of-a-kind Christian resource. It is an easy read that affirms the message to respect all life; born, unborn, and adopted. The book also includes a resource section featuring a glossary, numerous website and pro-life organization information, and a flowchart that aids in the understanding of the adoption process.

About the Author: Lori Hogg is a wife and an adoptive mom. She and her gamily live in the Buffalo, NY area, where she is active in many faith-based and pro-life activities. She enjoys family bike rides, scrap-booking and spending time with her family at their cottage searching for beach glass and gazing at the sunset over Lake Erie. Lori wrote Between You and Me as a tool for pro-life organizations and as a way to promote adoption awareness to individuals and groups.


Beyond Happily Ever After. Sally McNamara. 2000. 229p. (Reissued in 2012 by the Author “with an epilogue describing the reunion and the family interactions 17 years later.”) Gateway Press, Inc.
From the Back Cover: A life-changing telephone call shatters the calm of one Chappaqua, New York family’s routine evening. The caller was looking for his roots and wanted to speak with the writer’s late mother. What happens next is the tale of an adoption reunion, when a severed branch is attached to the family tree. The reunion between the adult adoptee and his original or birth mother does not, and cannot, happen in a vacuum. Several family systems are involved as well as the mother-child duo. Volcanic anger from the adoptee and delayed grieving on the part of the mother are all part of the story.

About the Author: Sally McNamara is the mother of four, grandmother of seven, a graduate of Hunter College, New York City 1956, and holds an MBA in marketing from Pace University Pleasantville. Married for 38 years to the same man, she had a career in non-profit fund raising and public relations before and after her family arrived. While raising the three children she was fortunate enough to keep she served as a Chappaqua Library Trustee (five years) and for 10 as board member and then as president of the local and County League of Women Voters.


Beyond the Bridge: The Compelling Story of a Reunion. Linda Ehle Callens. 2005. 326p. PublishAmerica.
Beyond The Bridge is an autobiography by Linda Ehle Callens. She was raised in Salinas, CA, during the ’50s and ’60s. After nine years in parochial school, she began attending public school. She was a devout Catholic girl until she fell in love at the age of 16, got pregnant, and was forced to relinquish her baby to adoption. That was in 1967, when few people understood the repercussions of giving up a child. Linda vowed she would find her son someday—to tell him she had always loved him. In 1990, she joined a search and reunion organization and gained a great deal of knowledge about the effects of adoption before she found her son. But nothing could have truly prepared her for the roller-coaster ride she was about to board. When this book was finished, she had been reunited for 13 years—and the ride was still going.

Birth Fathers and Their Adoption Experiences. Gary Clapton. 2002. 237p. Jessica Kingsley Publishers (UK).
From the Back Cover: Virtually all literature about birth parents of adopted children has focused on mothers. In this pioneering study, Gary Clapton gives us a fresh perspective: he recounts the experiences of thirty birth fathers separated from their children at birth.

Discussing different notions of fatherhood, such as biological paternity, social fatherhood, sperm donorship and the “father figure,” this informative book—the first on birth fathers in adoption—brings new light to issues such as the decision to give up a child for adoption, the child’s desire to find his or her birth parents, and the facilitation of contact later in life.

Written in an accessible style with insights into adoption and social work practice past and present, Birth Fathers and their Adoption Experiences offers a vital new perspective on understanding the causes and consequences of adoption, and makes positive suggestions for working with those whom it affects.


About the Author: Gary Clapton is a post-adoption counselor with Birthlink in Edinburgh and a training officer with City of Edinburgh Council Social Work Department.


Birth Mother. Joanna Wiebe. 2011. 276p. CreateSpace.
Six years ago Joanna gave up her baby son for adoption. Now it’s Christmas 1975, and she longs to celebrate with her rural Kansas Mennonite family, but the relationships are tense as they struggle to understand:
• why, after having a baby out of wedlock, do you keep taking up with new men like you’re sampling chocolates?
• what will your worldly lifestyle cause people to think about our family?
• when are you going to have a personal relationship with Jesus?
Struggling with shame and grief, days before the holiday, Joanna launches a road trip to Mexico with her boyfriend and her dog. The dog is run over by a truck, her boyfriend leaves to go back to school, the van breaks down, and she’s broke. She disappears into the social chaos of Guatemala City after a 7.3 earthquake, taking up a temporary role as La Maestra with a street gang, embracing a dark, dangerous, and all-absorbing way of life. A journal of her journey to wholeness, Birth Mother includes drawings and Mennonite and Guatemalan recipes. The book includes descriptions of the closed adoption process in Kansas in 1969, and Joanna’s experiences at the Salvation Army Home for Unwed Mothers in Wichita, KS.

Birth Mother. Denise Emanuel Clemen. 2014. 50p. (Kindle eBook) SheBooks.
Pregnant from her first sexual encounter, a teenager living in a town of 3,000 Catholics keeps her secret from everyone until six weeks before the baby’s due date. Hustled out of town and hidden in the Iowa countryside within hours of finally confiding in her mother, she concocts a scheme that will allow her to raise her child, but can she win over any of the people who might help her? As her pregnancy and its looming consequences unfold, she realizes that her life of lies and secrets has only just begun. About the Author: Denise Emanuel Clemen’s fiction and essays have appeared or are forthcoming in the Georgetown Review, Two Hawks Quarterly, the Rattling Wall, Fiction Fix, Knee-Jerk, and the Delmarva Review. Clemen has worked as an art model, sold her own blood plasma, and worked on an assembly line in a factory where she became an expert at assembling toy manure spreaders. She’s received fellowships to the Virginia Center for the Creative Arts, the Vermont Studio Center, and the Ragdale Foundation and was an Auvillar fellow at Moulin à Nef in France in 2009. Clemen received an MFA in creative writing from the University of Nebraska and regularly walks the beaches of Ventura County, California, hunting for treasures to take home to her 89-year-old mother. Her household is home to three generations and an elderly cat. Her blogs include Leavingdivorceville.blogspot.com, Myfrenchunderpants.blogspot.com.

Birth Mother: A Lyrical Companion to The Lucky Gourd Shop. Joanna Catherine Scott. 2000. 19p. Longleaf Press.
Award winning poetry chapbook. Companion to Scott’s novel The Lucky Gourd Shop.

Birth Mother Trauma: A Counseling Guide for Birth Mothers. Heather Carlini. 1992. 176p. Morning Side Publishing (Canada).
Some birth mothers go into a prolonged mourning period following the relinquishment of a child to adoption that can last for years. The suppression of the painful memories into the subconscious can be maintained over a lifetime, until she finds a way to heal. It is important that she allow herself to go through a healing process that will re-frame the past and change the way she view herself in the present. Birth Mother Trauma offers Seven-Stage Recovery Program for the birth mother that takes her through the following steps toward healing: Denial, Survival, Awakening, Grief Work, Bargaining, Forgiveness and Transformation. Going through the Recovery Process will help lesson the emotional pain.

A Birth Mother’s Book of Memories. Brenda Romanchik. 1994. 60p. (1999. 64p. Reissued as A Birthparent’s Book of Memories) R-Squared Press.
This beautifully designed book is meant to be a present from a birth mother to her child placed for adoption. The book begins by giving room for the birth mother to describe her childhood, family, friends and family traditions. Then she can write about her pregnancy and the decision to make an adoption plan. Finally, there is a section for her to recount memorable moments with her children as they grow. There is, of course, plenty of room for photos. About the Author: Brenda Romanchik is the birth mother of Matthew, born in 1984 and placed in a fully open adoption. She is one of the founders of R-Squared Press and is the author of A Birthparent’s Book of Memories, Birthparent Grief, What is Open Adoption?, Your Rights and Responsibilities: A Guide for Expectant Parents Considering Adoption, and the upcoming Birthparenting. She lives in Royal Oak, MI, with her husband and the two children she is parenting, Katarina and Daniel.

A Birth Mother’s Day Planner. Mary Jean Wolch-Marsh. 1996. 72p. R-Squared Press.
From the Publisher: Birth Mother’s Day, held the Saturday before Mother’s Day, originated to provide birth mothers with a time and place all their own that would honor their experience of motherhood. The planner includes practical tools and check lists to help you get organized. There is also a section of suggested readings, songs and poetry that can be incorporated into Birth Mother’s Day ceremonies that reflect both closed and open adoption experiences.

About the Author: Birth Mother’s Day and The Birth Mother’s Day Planner grew out of my own journey after losing my infant daughter in a closed adoption in 1978. It grew out of the experience of finding myself alone on a journey through a wilderness of grief. I was a mother, yet was not seen as a mother by those around me or those who were parenting my daughter. For many years I grieved in secret and felt myself to be invisible.

Yet even then, through tears, I remembered the great joy I had felt at my daughter’s birth. It was an experience of triumph, transcendence, and ecstasy that became my personal yardstick of joy. And so it was, I always observed her birthday as a day of celebration for both of us—of birth and birth-giving—even in the years of all-day grief.


Birthbond: Reunions Between Birthparents and Adoptees: What Happens After. Judith S Gediman & Linda P Brown. 1989. 285p. New Horizon Press.
What happens when birth parents and the children that they’ve placed for adoption meet? The authors of Birthbond conducted intensive interviews with 30 birth mothers who had successfully searched or been found. In addition, they talked with adoptees, members of the birth family, adoptive parents, adoption professionals and others involved with adoption in order to discover the impact of reunions on the lives of all who may be affected by adoption reunions.

About the Author: Judith S. Gediman, a research professional with degrees from Smith College and Harvard University, is currently principal and co-owner of a marketing research and consulting firm based in Stamford, Connecticut.

Linda P. Brown, an early childhood educator, is a birthmother whose post-reunion is currently in its fourth year. She is legislative director of the American Adoption Congress.


Birthmark. Lorraine Dusky. 1979. 191p. M Evans & Co.
From the Dust Jacket: For thirteen years, Lorraine Dusky has been a mother. But she has never seen her child.

Lorraine Dusky was an ambitious newspaper reporter from the Midwest, determined to make it to the top. She felt confident that when it came to her work, she thought like a man. Romance and marriage would not get in her way.

Then at the age of twenty-three, she gave her baby away-and her life was changed forever.

The birth of her child marked Lorraine Dusky for life—emotionally, intellectually and finally politically. Despite career success and apparent personal fulfillment, she has been haunted by the past, a woman driven by the need to find her daughter. Now she intends to work for change in the adoption laws and fight for the right to open the files that conceal knowledge of the whereabouts of her child. This book is her first step, both a personal odyssey and a public statement.

Deeply moving and completely involving, Birthmark forces the reader to question anew the meaning of being a mother.


About the Author: Lorraine Dusky has been Senior Editor of Town and Country, and has written for The New York Times, Cosmopolitan, and Good Housekeeping.


By the Same Author: Hole in My Heart (Leto Media, 2015). among others.


A Birthmother’s Journey. Joan Romeo. 2012. 92p. CreateSpace.
Joan Romeo made the life-changing decision at the age of seventeen to place her baby for adoption, a fact which she kept secret for most of her life. A Birthmother’s Journey is her story of coming to terms with her past through self-acceptance, forgiveness and healing. It is her hope that telling her story will provide comfort and healing to other birth mothers who have silently walked the same path.

Birthmothers: Women Who Have Relinquished Babies for Adoption Tell Their Stories. Merry Bloch Jones. 1993. 296p. Chicago Review Press.
From the Back Cover: Birthmothers presents intimate and stirring accounts of more than seventy women who surrendered babies for adoption. It follows their lives long-term, from discovery of their pregnancies through the present, and identifies the Birthmother Syndrome a pattern of behavior and emotions resulting from surrender. With heartwarming candor, it reveals the stories of the invisible side of the adoption triangle, and touches everyone involved in adoption, as well as anyone interested in motherhood, family and women in our society.

About the Author: Merry Bloch Jones is the author of seven books examining women’s roles and close relationships. Her other works include Stepmothers: Keeping It Together with Your Husband and His Kids, I Love Him, But..., I Love Her, But..., Please Don’t Kiss Me at the Bus Stop, If She Weren’t My Best Friend I’d Kill Her, and America’s Dumbest Dates.


Birthparent Grief. Brenda Romanchik. 1999. 20p. (Open Adoption Pocket Book Series) R-Squared Press.
The four booklets in The Open Adoption Pocket Book Series are designed to give prospective birth parents and adoptive parents a concise introduction to the many different issues in open adoption. Birthparent Grief takes the mystery out of the process and helps birth parents (and others!) to define their loss and understand the grieving process. About the Author: Brenda Romanchik is the birth mother of a 15-year-old son, Matthew, whom she placed in an open adoption at birth. She is the author of a number of open adoption books and publications as well as the owner of R-Squared Press, a publishing company dedicated to bringing the public resources for open adoption. Brenda is a firm believer that for open adoptions to work, those involved need practical information on how to handle the relationships open adoptions create. She also believes that birth parents and adoptive parents need ongoing support. With this in mind, in 1994, Brenda organized the first Lifegiver’s Festival in Traverse City, Michigan with Jim Gritter, the author of The Spirit of Open Adoption. Since that time she has facilitated seven national Lifegiver’s Festivals in Higgins Lake, MI, and is taking it “on the road” to other locations all over the country. She is also involved in organizing The Open Adoption Families Conference, held every even year. She is also a participant in a number of national and regional adoption conferences.

Birthright: The Guide to Search and Reunion for Adoptees, Birthparents and Adoptive Parents. Jean Strauss. Foreword by Clariss Pinkola Estes, PhD. 1994. 363p. Penguin.
From the Back Cover: What happens when an adoptee decides to locate a birthparent or a birthparent wants to find a child given up long ago? How does one search for people whose names one does not know? And what happens during a reunion? In 1983, Jean A. S. Strauss was faced with these questions when she began her search for her birthmother, and in this inspiring new handbook, she shares her experience. Strauss will help you throughout this significant time. Brimming with important reference sources and dozens of true-life stories, this valuable resource will guide you in:

• Making the difficult decision to search

• Navigating through the emotional turbulence of a reunion

• Dealing with the impact of the search on the adoptive parents

Compassionate and insightful, Birthright is for anyone seeking to connect with someone long lost.


About the Author: Jean Strauss is the wife of a college president and the author of Birthright (Penguin) and lives in Claremont, California.


By the Same Author: The Great Adoptee Search Book (1990, Castle Rock Publishing) and Beneath a Tall Tree: A Story About Us (2001, Arete Publishing Co.).


Bitter Fruit: Women’s Experiences of Unplanned Pregnancy, Abortion and Adoption. Ann Perkins & Rita Townsend. 1992. 286p. Hunter House.
From the Back Cover: “I was fourteen, going on fifteen. At first I denied I was pregnant...”

What is it like to experience an abortion at fourteen? How does a woman who has given up a baby for adoption feel about it decades later? While the debate between pro-life and pro-choice movements rages on, the voices of women who have faced unplanned pregnancy have rarely been heard—until now.

In this stunning work, dozens of women speak openly about their choices and their lives, from backroom abortions to pregnancies within destructive relationships—and the conflicts, loneliness, and confusion surrounding their decisions. Some of the women are now grandmothers, others still painfully young. Their oral histories, poems, and vivid illustrations reveal what it means to be a child-bearer in our society today. Most of all, Bitter Fruit is an unforgettable study in human courage—the courage to choose, to endure, and finally, to be heard.


About the Author: Ann Perkins writes on women’s issues, is a poet, facilitates self-help groups for women facing unplanned pregnancy, and is completing her Master’s in Counseling Psychology.

Rita Townsend, M.S., is in private practice as a psychotherapist. She also lectures and writes regularly on psychological and social issues from a feminist perspective.


Bittersweet. Gay Lewis. 1984. 207p. Bridge Publishing.
From the Publisher: Bittersweet is the story of Laurie, the author’s daughter, who finds herself pregnant while away at Bible school and decides to surrender her child for adoption and the effects these events have on her and her family.

About the Author: Gay Lewis is a speaker, most often dealing with family topics. She believes that the concept and example of “family” is of utmost importance in today’s world. She and her husband, Tom, and other members of their family are presently launching into a speaking and musical ministry, to share a message of restoration and hope. Gay has a life-long passion for writing and has worked at the annual Mount Hermon Writers conference for 21 years. She and Tom also managed a private retreat center in Maryland for four years, with the International Foundation. High school sweethearts, Tom and Gay have been married for 48 years. Their practical, family experience has been gained from four daughters, four sons-in-law, eighteen grandchildren and two great-grandchildren.


By the Same Author: Bittersweet: The Restoration Continues (2008, Winepress Publishing).


Bittersweet: The Restoration Continues. Gay Lewis. 2008. 235p. Winepress Publishing.
From the Publisher: What happens to an eighteen-year-old who discovers she’s pregnant her first semester at Bible school? And what happens twenty-five years later when that baby reappears in the life of that young woman, now a wife and mother? The story is Bittersweet, its pain and despair overlaid by the grace and forgiveness of God and the miracle of restoration.

About the Author: Gay Lewis is the author of the original Bittersweet (1984). She is also a speaker, most often dealing with family topics. She believes that the concept and example of “family” is of utmost importance in today’s world. She and her husband, Tom, and other members of their family are presently launching into a speaking and musical ministry, to share a message of restoration and hope. Gay has a life-long passion for writing and has worked at the annual Mount Hermon Writers conference for 21 years. She and Tom also managed a private retreat center in Maryland for four years, with the International Foundation. High school sweethearts, Tom and Gay have been married for 48 years. Their practical, family experience has been gained from four daughters, four sons-in-law, eighteen grandchildren and two great-grandchildren.


By the Same Author: Bittersweet (1984, Bridge Publishing).


Bittersweet Blessing: 16 and Pregnant. Ashley Salazar. 2012. 224p. MTV Press.
From the Publisher: When high-school junior Ashley Salazar learned she was pregnant, she immediately started a blog to document the difficult, life-altering experience. Little did she know how life-altering it would actually be. Later, she applied online to be considered for the cast of MTV’s hit show 16 & Pregnant. The show responded quickly and her story will be told as the season 2 finale in a special 90-minute episode aired in December 2010. Her memoir takes the viewer further back and further forward, and chronicles the tortured indecision she faces as she decides whether its best for her baby to give her up for adoption or take the dramatic step toward motherhood.

About the Author: Ashley D. Salazar is from McKinney, Texas. Now 19 years old, she is the subject of an upcoming special episode of MTV’s enormously successful show 16 & Pregnant. Currently, she is living in New York City attending the New School.


Blended Hearts, Broken Promises: An Open Adoption Gone Wrong. Linda Kats, EdD. 2005. 144p. (Previously self-published in 2003 as Blending Hearts: An Adoption Story by AuthorHouse) MileStones International Publishers.
From the Publisher: Blended Hearts, Broken Promises chronicles the true story of one family’s choice to strategically select a family to parent and care for their child through open adoption. Although told by the agency that open adoption isn’t legally recognized in her state, they were given verbal promises of an open adoption that would ideally blend together the birth family and the adoptive family to raise the child with healthy, caring relationships. But the promises made to the birth family were soon broken. They found themselves misled and betrayed. With nowhere left to turn except to God, they drew strength from their faith in the promises of His Word, while holding on to the hope that one day their two families would blend together through the shared love for a child. In this book, author L.J. Kats submits hope for working through the complex issues associated with open adoption and gives an account of the real side of relinquishment for the birth family. She confronts heart issues and essential questions that all family members need to consider before making the decision to enter into an open adoption. Whether you are faced with the decision of giving up a child for open adoption or you are in the beginning stages of becoming open adoptive parents, Blended Hearts, Broken Promises is a must read.

About the Author: L.J. Kats began researching open adoption over six years ago. Her earned doctorate degree in education required an extensive background in research and writing. Dr. Kats and her husband reside in both Oklahoma and Nebraska. She and her husband have four biological children and one adopted child. Along with the biological grandchild specific to this story, their adopted child and husband have two adopted children, making Dr. Kats and her husband biological and adoptive grandparents. Their adopted grandchildren have very successful open adoptions. She supports an adoption agency in Oklahoma whose mission is to place families with children who will know their heritage without clouds of secrecy.


The Blue Book 2000: The Adoption Re-Connection Directory, Search and Support Referral Source. C Curry Wolfe, ed. 2000. 91p. (9th edition. Spiral-bound. Unnumbered pages.) C Curry Wolfe.
This annual directory is one of the more comprehensive collections of names and addresses of groups and individuals who offer assistance and/or support to the searching adoptee or birth parent. [Available from the publisher: C Curry Wolf, P.O. Box 230643, Encinitas, CA 92023-0643.]

The Book of Answers from your Birth Family: A Guided Journal for Birth Family Relatives. Ms Jenny Lynn Delaney. 2011. 164p. CreateSpace.
This journal is a vehicle to be gifted to a placed child to allow communication with and become familiar with the birth family regardless of their accessibility. It is an opportunity for the birth family’s story to be heard without interruption, in a safe non-accusing environment. An open adoption allows for this free exchange of information and can be a healthy way for an adopted child to understand it was through the love of family regardless of circumstance, that brought everyone together to share their lives. We are all simply, a branch of someone’s family tree. A perfect open adoption gift!

The Book of Answers from your Birth Father: A Guided Journal for Birth Fathers. Ms Jenny Lynn Delaney. 2011. 168p. CreateSpace.
A self guided journal for a birth father to write his family story without interruption, in a safe and non-accusing environment. This journal is a vehicle for birth fathers to communicate with their biological children placed in adoptive homes. The more a child understands where they have come from, the stronger sense of self they will have. A sense of connection to birth parents will reinforce adoption is the ultimate gift of love and selflessness. The perfect open adoption gift book! The Book of Answers, a guided journal for birth fathers to share their life story is a loving opportunity for adopted children to hear in their birth father’s life story in the birth father’s voice. The journal addresses so many questions adoptive children may have regarding their birth parents. By answering general questions the birth father will have the opportunity to address four major areas of interest: “The Family Basics” (Family names, health history, traditions), “Are we alike?” (likes and dislikes of food, sports, entertainment), Unique and Personal Experiences and Opinions (Growing up, people of influence, spiritual beliefs), The Story Behind My Adoption (Circumstances, people involved, pregnancy stories). After the birth father completes what he can of the journal he returns it to the adoptive family as a vehicle in communicating with the adopted child, their biological connection and family stories. This ensures the birth father’s story is told in her own voice and will bring comfort to the child through a better understanding of his biological family.

The Book of Answers from your Birth Mother: A Guided Journal for Birth Mothers. Ms Jenny Lynn Delaney. 2011. 168p. CreateSpace.
The perfect open adoption gift book! The Book of Answers, a guided journal for birth mothers to share their life story is a loving opportunity for adopted children to hear in their birth mother’s life story in the birth mother’s voice. The journal addresses so many questions adoptive children may have regarding their birth parents. By answering general questions the birth mother will have the opportunity to address four major areas of interest: “The Family Basics” (Family names, health history, traditions), “Are we alike?” (likes and dislikes of food, sports, entertainment), Unique and Personal Experiences and Opinions (Growing up, people of influence, spiritual beliefs), The Story Behind My Adoption (Circumstances, people involved, pregnancy stories). After the birth mother completes what she can of the journal she returns it to the adoptive family as a vehicle in communicating with the adopted child, their biological connection and family stories. This ensures the birth mother’s story is told in her own voice and will bring comfort to the child through a better understanding of his biological family.

Books, Babies and School-Age Parents: How to Teach Pregnant and Parenting Teens to Succeed. Jeanne Warren Lindsay & Sharon Githens Enright, PhD. 1997. 286p. Morning Glory Press.
From the Back Cover: Half a million babies are born to teenage mothers each year, and about one-third of these babies also have teenage fathers. Parents today need an education more than ever before—yet the majority of teen parents still drop out of school. Caring and a little extra help can make the difference.

Books, Babies and School-Age Parents will help you:

• Understand the special issues of teenage parents.

• Develop curriculum geared to young parents’ needs.

• Assist your school district in developing services to prevent dropout.

• Gain community support for badly-needed school services.

• Work more effectively with this special population.


About the Author: Jeanne Warren Lindsay founded and, for sixteen years, coordinated and taught a teen parent program in a Los Angeles County school district. She is the author of sixteen other books for and about pregnant and parenting teens including the Teens Parenting four-book series and Teen Dads: Rights, Responsibilities and Joys.

She edits the PPT Express, quarterly newsletter for teachers and others working with pregnant and parenting teens. She speaks frequently at conferences across the country, but says she is happiest while interviewing young people for her books or writing in her backyard.

Lindsay, a transplanted Californian for 37 years, grew up on a farm in Kansas. She has MA degrees in anthropology and consumer and family science. She and Bob have five children and five gorgeous and brilliant grandchildren.

Sharon Githens Enright is a state supervisor in family and consumer sciences and director of Ohio’s GRADS (Graduation, Reality, And Dual-Role Skills) program, an in-school program for pregnant and parenting teens. In addition to working with Ohio’s 280 GRADS teachers, she directed the GRADS national dissemination project, and has worked with teachers and other professionals in more than 35 states. Schools in 16 other states have adopted and adapted the GRADS program model.

Enright began an 11-year tenure in 1974 as a teacher in an alternative school for teen parents. She earned her B.S. and M.S. degrees in Home Economics Education from Indiana State University, and her Ph.D. in Family Science from The Ohio State University.

Enright lives in Columbus, Ohio, with her husband Steve. She has two teen-age sons who live in Michigan and a young step-daughter in Oregon. Family time is a challenge as well as a priority.


Compiler’s Note: The book specifically addresses the subject of adoption in Chapter 9: Parenthood May Bring Loss, and liberally promotes Lindsay’s other, adoption-specific titles, both in an order form at the end and contextually within the body of the book.


Born with Teeth: A Memoir. Kate Mulgrew. 2015. 302p. Little, Brown & Co.
From the Dust Jacket: Raised by unconventional Irish Catholics who knew “how to drink, how to dance, how to talk, and how to stir up the devil,” Kate Mulgrew grew up with poetry and drama in her bones. But in her mother, a would-be artist burdened by the endless arrival of new babies, young Kate saw the consequences of a dream deferred. Determined to pursue her own dream no matter the cost, at seventeen she left her small midwestern town for New York, where, studying with the legendary Stella Adler, she learned the lesson that would define her as an actress: “Use it,” Adler told her. Whatever disappointment, pain, or anger life throws in your path, channel it into the work.

It was a lesson she would need. At twenty-two, just as her career was taking off, she became pregnant and gave birth to a daughter. Having already signed the adoption papers, she was allowed only a fleeting glimpse of her child. As her star continued to rise, her life became increasingly demanding and fulfilling, a whirlwind of passionate love affairs, lifesaving friendships, and bone-crushing work. Through it all, Mulgrew remained haunted by the loss of her daughter, until, two decades later, she found the courage to face the past and step into the most challenging role of her life, both on and offscreen.

We know Kate Mulgrew for the strong women she’s played—especially Captain Janeway on Star Trek: Voyager and the tough-as-nails “Red” on Orange Is the New Black. Now we meet the most inspiring and memorable character of all: Mulgrew herself. By turns irreverent and soulful, laugh-out-loud funny and heart-piercingly sad, Born with Teeth is the breathtaking memoir of a woman who dares to live life to the fullest, on her own terms.


About the Author: Kate Mulgrew is an American actress noted for her roles as Captain Kathryn Janeway on Star Trek: Voyager, Mary Ryan on Ryan’s Hope, and, most recently, Galina “Red” Reznikov on Orange is the New Black. She has performed in numerous television shows, theater productions, and movies. She is a winner of a Golden Satellite Award, a Saturn Award, and an Obie Award, and has been nominated for a Golden Globe and an Emmy.


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